Vocational Distress and a Daddy Date

Not too long ago, I was distressed. My calling and vocation involve a lot of people work and care. It’s something I love for sure, and look forward to doing until my dying day. But there are times where… well, I’m distressed.

On this particular day, I was feeling a certain type of distress that I had not felt before. A lot of it probably came from a lack of being connected spiritually to Jesus.  The thought crossed my mind, “maybe I should just leave this call, this vocation.”

While dealing with this,  I decided to take my oldest, 2.5 year-old daughter out for a date (I had to bail on a hang out time we usually have, so I thought this was a good thing to do).  We went to the mall, got some Ben & Jerry’s, held hands and walked around, talked about random things, watched a toy speed boat in the mall fountain, and…  well, we had a great time.

And it hit me- wow, this is my first call, first vocation, in my journey of being a Jesus follower.  Sure God has entrusted me to care for a spiritual family at the church I love.  I would die for those people, I would.   But my wife, and my daughters- there’s nothing quite like the calling I have to love and care for them.

Thankfully, after our date, God met me in a time of prayer and got me to a place of emotional and spiritual health concerning the mentioned distress.  But I think He started His healing before that, through a bubbly two year old, excited about a date with Daddy.



  Belisarius wrote @

I’m touched, Yucan. It’s something that all of us servants of Christ struggle with, the “what’s the use” syndrome. I’m so glad that “the Senator” helped keep you on the right track, she’s a real sweetheart.

But one thing. Ben & Jerry’s? They fuel huge amounts of their profits into International Planned Parenthood! That great stuff slaughters children all over the world!! Have you considered Hagendaz? I wish they would extend Blue Bell out to California! (The greatest ice cream of all–from Brenham, Texas, of course!).

  kgb wrote @

Thats word brotha. I miss you, love you, will see you b4 2008. Peace 2 u and d fam.

  connie wrote @

this is such a sweet story!

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